The “domestic” part doesn’t matter—violence is violence. There was a time when victims of domestic violence could be silenced, and many people didn’t pay attention to the seriousness of the situation. Their pleas fell upon deaf ears, as our society looked the other way. Nowadays that is not the case; we live in a time where victims of all ages, genders, and ethnicities have a much stronger voice. They no longer allow themselves to be denied of any help or awareness of their situation. Victims are now using their experiences to speak out to heal themselves, while strengthening others. However, even with the resources available, and the cognizance brought upon to our society, many still do not understand the extent of what victims go through, and how much they actually suffer not just during, but long after getting away from their abuser. Victims suffer mental effects from domestic violence because not only does it cause the victim physical damage from the abuse, but it also causes post-traumatic stress, anxiety and even mental instability from watching the abuse take place.…
As a domestic violence advocate, I have provided direct services to women who have come to the shelter to escape an abusive relationship. The services that I have provided include working on the hotline, doing safety plans, accompanying women to court to file for protection orders, etc. Also, I meet with women in groups and individually to do workshops that help to explain trauma and how to heal from that…
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If an individual was telling me they were being abused, I would first say I cannot keep this a secret. I would not ask them questions, I would just let them tell me all of there story. I would reassure them that they are not in trouble, and that things will be sorted out.…
referred to seek help from authorities for her abuse to help her recover and cope.…
It’s important to know that the effects of domestic violence can be overwhelming to experience, and even to learn about. It’s common for someone in an abusive relationship to not recall many aspects of their life prior to being abused, especially if they have been exposed to violence for an extended period of time. Sometimes, it may seem as if the violence defines their identity. Surviving domestic violence is possible, and although it requires addressing painful realities, it also means discovering new inner strengths for the survivor.…
Domestic violence is an age old dilemma which has only begun to be seriously addressed and treated in the field of psychotherapy. A knowledge of the history of such issues can assist in the understanding of how violence has evolved into its present state, and also expands the understanding of legal involvement. The preponderance of domestic violence throughout history has been inflicted by males upon females, however the reverse circumstance has entered into public awareness in recent years. Domestic violence is frequently featured in mainstream media, which has assisted…
According to Payne and Wermeling’s research, many victims remain in abusive relationships to avoid retaliation towards them or their children and revictimization of victims occurs at rates as high as 32% within 6 months of the first case of domestic violence (Payne & Wermeling, 2009). Some victims even try to work things out with their attackers by meeting their demands or simply trying to talk out their “problems”, which can lead to further abuse. “The most common reasons for not reporting domestic violence to police are that victims view the incident as a personal or private matter, they fear retaliation from their abuser, and they do not believe that police will do anything about the incident,” according to the Feminist Majority Foundation’s research (FMF,…
Discuss the various aspects of intimate partner violence and outline what needs to be taken into account in responding to the victim and the offender…
Hetling, Andrea, and Haiyan Zhang. "Domestic Violence, Poverty, and Social Services: Does Location Matter?" Social Science Quarterly 91 (2010). Print…
The health needs for victims of Domestic Violence are mainly for two reasons medical health needs and mental health needs. Most victims reported needing medical treatment at least once because of physical abuse from his or her partner. Some victims also need mental health treatment and may have received counseling because of post trauma stress.…
An abused woman lives in fear, unable to predict when the next attack will come. She may become isolated from friends and family, and increasingly dependent on her abuser. In these circumstances it can be very hard to make sense of what is really happening. Over time her self-esteem may be worn down. She may start to believe her abuser’s insults. She may blame herself for the abuse, or deny that it is taking place. She may ignore it, hoping that her partner -the man she loves will change. Abused women are not weak, submissive victims. It takes huge strength to live with an abusive partner. Women have to be strong and resourceful, adapting to all kinds of coping strategies to survive each day. Abused women can have a bad impact on the way a person thinks and interacts with the world around them. The chronic exposure to domestic violence—and the stress fear resulting from this exposure—can cause not only immediate physical injury, but also mental shifts that occur as the mind attempts to process trauma or protect the body. Domestic violence affects one’s thoughts, feelings and behaviors and can significantly impact one’s mental stability. Increased anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder and depression symptoms are commonly observed among survivors of domestic violence. The reason I wrote this paper is because I was raised in domestic violence my whole life and it has affected me so much in my social life. I became so self-centered and hated the feeling of not knowing when the next argument or fight was going to be. Being exposed to domestic violence was a traumatic experience for me, I always thought it would never end and my mom would end up in the hospital. My biggest fear was that I going to grow up and be in an abusive relationship. Having to witness my abused mom, and not able to help has changed me as a child. I felt as though I had to become an adult before I should have been. I…
From my observation, I believe that the social worker was seeking to help the client of domestic violence become aware that her children are seeing the violence that is done in front of them. The domestic violence can be anything of physical, verbal, and/or emotional abuse. The children may or may not be able see the violence happening, but they may be aware of it in some type of way. Based on that, I think the social worker is trying to get her client to understand that her children knows what is going on, but is not expressing it. The same way how the client seen violence in her childhood, it is happening again in her own family.…
Although assistance is now available to those who need it, domestic violence is still a problem that must be dealt with. The victims of domestic violence have real problems that need attention, but it seems as if the issues these people face are not top priority. There are multiple things that are going on in a domestic violence situation, but to someone on the outside looking in, the obvious choice would be to get out of the situation and leave.…
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